Check....

So you will learn as your grow up that Mommy always seem to have a busy schedule but we wont pout about it but get done what we can on that long list of ours.  This will be a memorable weekend for us my sweetness let me go ahead with the agenda:

8a.m.-Arise and shine you turn 4MONTHS woo hoo!!  I'll most likely have to wake you because you can sleep girl...lol Mommy has a surprise for you my Queen so cant wait to capture with our camera!

9a.m. Go by Aunty Crystal's hair instructor's school she has some hair barrettes for us to look at and pick up :)
11a.m. Mommy's nail appointment...cant wait till you get older so I can have them do your little fingers & toes.
1p.m. Your pictures taken FINALLY w/ your blessing dress..thank goodness the dress is pretty big..cant wait!!!
2p.m. Your cousin Wyate has his last rugby game so we will be in attendance..I'm sure you'll grow to know that I LOVE RUGBY!
4p.m. Home sweet Home / Get to rest & relax
5p.m. Momma works only till 9p.m. woo hoo..and of course the usual on the weekends CSI Weekend lol

Come Sunday I can finally relax with you cant wait.  Guess what is on Monday? Your 4month check up cant wait to hear your new measurements and weight, but I am dreading the shots that will be done :( I'm sure your Dad isn't going to be very happy either but we have to do what we have to do to avoid any future illnesses.  Well my sweetness we shall see what actually this weekend unfolds all I know for sure is I'm ready to spend more time with you...love you FOREVER Ongo May ummmaaa your Momma

Our BEAUTIFUL "sleepy head"

Daddy watching you....Again......Check you out....Love sleeping with your Daddy....

My Queen you are such a "sleepy head" you have been such a great baby when I lay you down you put yourself to sleep and when your out you are OUT!! Above are but a few picture of you and your Daddy I put those up and blog about your sleeping because last nite we had a "random moment" usually when you move around during the night your able to find your comfort spot and with in a a few seconds your out, but last night was different.  As of right now you sleep with me on our bed and Dad sleeps on the floor across from us, well I woke up to your Dad standing at the side of the bed watching us.  He had said you had been moving quiet a bit so he came to check on you...by the looks of it Dad seemed to enjoy watching us lol.  Anyhow we thought you would find that comfort spot and knock out BUT nope....you were wide awake especially when you caught your Daddy's eyes staring at you.  You had the cutest and biggest smile that Dad couldn't hold back from picking you up.  So its about 3a.m. I have to get some rest for work so its Daddy's duty and boy does he LOVE it. He changed your little diaper, made your bottle, made your bed right next to his.  I found you in the cutest position this morning all snugged up to your Dad...such a great Kodak moment but of course I couldn't find my camera hoi.  Anyhow my sweetness so grateful to have you in my life & grateful for the sweet spirit and happiness you bring to me & your Dad.  We love you so much our beautiful "sleepy head"..love Mom

Getting ready 4months our QUEEN!

Only 2 days my sweetness and you will officially be 4months woo hoo!! Sheesh you are growing up to quick lol but we are so excited for all the new things you will be doing & accomplishing.  Now we do have a bit of a discrepancy with G-Pa Talite lol he has his own way of counting how old his little Princess Ongo May is but we'll let him continue with that.   Well my dear beauty I still remember when me & Dad took you to your 2mnths check up boy...was it hard for us especially your Dad they had to give you a total of 3shots you were such a big girl you maybe cried for a few seconds and that was that.  I will be honest you did have your moments later on that night BUT I was told that it would be a long night for us because of the shots and the side affects (fevering, aching, fussy) BUT yet again NOT our little QUEEN nope you slept like usual.  I did want to post some pictures from that 2month check up. 

Daddy prepping you for the shots.

A closer pix of you relaxing.

Getting your measurements in.

Me & you waiting for MD Wilkerson.

Cant wait for this coming Monday May 3rd for the results with your measurements.  Love you our beautiful growing daughter...

Your Filimoeatu Aunty's gotta love them!

 I know I've posted today already but as you will learn so much happens and at times its hard to keep up!! Above in the pictures Ongo May are but a few of your Aunty's on your Mommy's Filimoeatu side.  I cant wait until you are old enough to know each of them and now how special they are.  There are more than half that were not able to attend because of work, or living out of the state of Utah but I'm sure if they could have attended they would've.  When we get together there is no turning back...we enjoy each others company, jokes, stories and so on.  It was great to be together to get the 411 on the hap's with each other.  You are blessed with a great family on my side along with your Dad's side we know they will be here to help us raise you to the best that we can in accomplishing all that you have set!! I love you sisters so much and am very very very grateful to have been blessed with great women in my life!! FILIMOEATU sister's ROCK!!

Father to his daughter

Daddy & his Queen

Since you arrived my sweetness your Dad has been in a daze.  From the minute you came out he has not stopped staring at you.  In fact your older cousin Leslie laughs at how locked he gets and  asks "does he ever stop staring at her.... sheesh".  I blog today about him because of how grateful I am for him and just so you can read this one day.  Dad does a lot for us especially for me Mom when he gets off on Mondays from a 12hr shift he NEVER complains of finishing up what I may have not over the weekend but more importantly he is ready to care for his "MooMoo" changing your diaper, to getting you ready for the day, to cleaning and organizing, doing laundry and the list goes on and on.  At times he doesn't get his rest in til I return from work which is about 5p.m. making Dad staying up at times for about 23hrs.  In the night if you wake up for any reason or he hears you cry or move you better believe Dad is up and at your bedside!! When we all saw how beautiful you were and talked about you growing up often times the discussion was how cute your Dad will be with you...everyone seemed to know that your Dad would be the type to carry you so proudly around his "cool" friends, he would be the type of Father that everyone would only see around with his little Queen.  You know "MooMoo" they know your Dad so well because he is that type of man he is, of course that's why it only took Mommy 28days to realize how much I LOVED him!! I will let you on an obvious secret...I feel sorry for any future boy friends that come into your life...your Dad has said to me plenty of times after looking at you..."I better be dead when she starts dating"...sad huh..lol no honey he only says that because your Dad KNOWS how boys can be!! But I'm sure when you start to date he will be OK with it I have some years to work with him on that!  I know when you are old enough to realize that the BIG BROWN EYES that are forever in your face belong to your loving, hardworking Daddy. I know you will grow to know on your own what a special man he is, and how he really can make you feel like the Queen because he has made me feel like that for the past 3yrs.  My beautiful daughter Ongo May Tainali I know for sure because I am a daughter myself of a loving father that your bond with your Dad is and will be so unexplainable.....always know how special you are to me ESPECIALLY to your Dad...I found a great poem that I depicts the LOVE your Dad has for you...

"Certain is it that there is no kind of affection so purely angelic as of a father to a daughter. In love to our wives there is a desire; to our sons, ambition; but to our daughters there is something which there are no words to express." Joseph Addison

Latest on Ongo May SKILLS

Hey our beauty I know about 3 months late right lol one thing I do hope you don't inherit from me is my "procrastination skill" I'm going to teach my dear that TIME is of the ESSENCE which I'm sure you will learn on your own as well.  Anyhow I will from now on post your latest skills, and really hard to say if it will be monthly or weekly or even daily because the rate you are growing my dear has been surprising.  So here is the latest as of today...

You are 3mnths and 26days as of today....
*you are drooling so much causing me to buy about 10new bibs..uh yea adding to the 30-40 you already have, but we cant stand having you sit with a wet yucky one so we rotate it pretty much every hour to half hour...i know it may seem extreme but your G-Ma, G-Pa, Aunty's & Uncle's and of course me & Dad cant have our PRINCESS uncomfortable;)
*G-Ma Ongo has officially started her own feeding process lol banana flavored custard w/ your milk uh yea..we don't complain cause she has raised 8+kids and her 11grand-kids so far and we ALL have turned pretty good lol.
*you squirm so much in your bouncer & swing a.k.a "Farris wheel" (your Aunty Ruby has named your swing) we have to use the "buckles" on you.
*you've always been able to hold her head up but now you got the "stare" going on watching anybody and everybody that passes you and I must say my dear you do very well!
*You are wearing size 2 diapers BUT they are becoming a little snugged so I've bought your size 3 diapers already lol.
*We are now on our size 6months clothing blame that on your beautiful Tongan thick bones. lol
*You have the skill of SLEEPING down to the T literally...I can put you to bed by 9pm (the earliest so far) but you can remain knocked out till like 10:30am-11a.m. WOW I LOVE it and of course Daddy does to..but your G-Pa  misses you so much he makes us wake you up!!
*you have ALWAYS loved to smile & laugh but now you do it so much everyone loves to hold you!!

I could go on and on about your skills my dear sweetness but with time the list will be longer and longer...its amazing how fast you have grown and we still get shocked knowing how time flies...we love hija always know how special you are to Dad & Me..forever ur Lil Queen Ongo May

Updatee...

We'll Im sure this is a little late to update on BUT thats the beauty of being in charge of your OWN blogspot lol.  Im getting back into blogging and mainly for my daughter to one day be able to share it with her.  So if you come across my blog sounding a little off at times we'll thats ok I KNOW my daughter will understand it ALL. lol.  So from here on out my sweetness Ongo May these posts will be set up as if you were my only reader lol which you really are..besides those who haven't gotten lost from my previous blog in 2009.  Here we go hija....lots of LOVE your Mom

It's DONE with it...

Done with folks just a little note that I'm DONE with it!! The 3 weeks of re-training for JB has been completed with as of April 23rd, 2010 what a GREAT ACCOMPLISHMENT!! Seriously I found my self at the begining ready to throw the towel in because of my sweetness Ongo May and missing her so much...but as usual the Lord has helped me get through it thank goodness!! So now I'm officially able to work from home like old times yipppeeee meaning being with my beautiful daughter at home!!

I SHALL & I WILL....

So this has to be the cutest thing my husband has written me recently.  If you know Jay than you know that he is so into "description" and "details" SERIOUSLY!! So we both use my personal email, I mean I would set one up for Jay but he would end up just using mines anyways.  So we have discovered away to keep in contact while I've had this crazy schedule with both jobs.  We use one email and just email eachother..i know NOT so interesting right...and im sure your wondering why dont we just IM we'll for one I cant find time to teach him how to IM and also were both kids when we see and email with the subject line for one of us we become little kids writing little love notes..lol SERIOUSLY!! So I wanted to share one of them that kept me SMILING so big and for so long....LOVE my BABY's DADDY lol it was entitled

"I SHALL & I WILL"

My Dear "LOVE"...THANK YOU for "ALWAYS" being **STRONG** and being CONSISTANT in EVERYTHING that you do in TRYING to "BETTER" everything around you and that is a PART of you. Even if there is ONE such BURDEN(hmm, I wonder WHO that is) that tends to WEIGH a lil' TOO much OVER the CAPACITY that you STRIVE to carry into The ETERNAL life forever & EVER!!! You do push me the "MOST" 'cause I know YOU have DONE "MORE" than HALF of your SHARE already and NOW its time for me to do the REST and take it to the FINISH LINE!! I just WANTED to come on here(hopin' that you made it to work on time)to "THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH" for your KIND self on "ALWAYS" putting in the EXTRA "EFFORT" in "GOING OUT OF YOUR WAY"(like ALWAYS)to take your PRECIOUS TIME & ENERGY to FULFILL anothers need!! I just want to CRY 'cause I know I havent BEEN the BEST Husband to you in the WORLD and the BEST Father in the WORLD to our Daughter "Moo Moo"!! So the TITLE of this here Email to you says it ALL...hopefully I WILL and I SHALL do FOLLOW through with it and BECOME that ONE "SUPER-DUPER" Father & Husband that I NEED to be for my own lil' Family at home and do what is EXPECTED of me and make it for **ALL TIME & ETERNITY** So to My KWEEN "CHUBBY CHUBBY"..."THANK YOU" once AGAIN as you ALWAYS do in all things with us.......STILL accept me for who I am(like ALWAYS)and putting up with my ways at times. I do WANT you to KNOW that you do ALWAYS cross my mind and that I DO always THINK about you ALL THE TIME!!! MORE than you THINK I do...ABOUT the same as you do with me, Im just right there with you. SO give me KISS...**I LOVE YOU** FOR ALL TIME & ETERNITY...your HUSBAND to Meliame Lonely Nydegger... your KING to The "CHUBBY CHUBBY" highnest...and FATHER to YOUR Daughter Princess "Moo Moo" b.k.a. **CHUNKY CHIPS**!!! -J.I. & 'Ongo May-


Isnt that so sweet...yea...that is why I fell in love with him in 28 days because of his sweet sweetness.  I'm grateful that I have been blessed with a man who is very open with his emotions and feelings. Ongo May b.k.a "CHUNCKY CHIPS" & me are very blessed.  We LOVE you Dad!!

Holly "flashback" March 2007

Lookey what we have here....a picture found in my email account!! This is a picture taken back in 2007 in preperation of my handsome "skinny" hubby (the one with no shirt on lol) his Dad my loving father in law Paseni "Crip" holding the water hose, Jay's good friend (more like brother) in the white tank Nic Fonua & I can not make out whot that is bending over.  I remember this day only because Jay was telling me how the men were teasing him about my Dad & how Jay has to find the biggest pig and by the picture above I think he did pretty good with finding an abnormal looking pig lol.  Oh check out my jexy man...wow its crazy to remember how skinny (but in shape) he was.  You know though I think he looks even more jexy now healthy and all.  Just though I'd sahre this picture it's one of my fave from our past!! Oh forgot to mention the photographer was Pate Lomu oh...so remember when he used to come around my husband so much!! Love these men espicially my MAN. Good times!!

Oh pretty please.....

Isn't that a cute picture? Yea hope i look as cute as that puppy does "begging"...what am I begging for? A LOT lol nah just that this training can go bay faster...or better yet I can test out by next week so I can be home with my BEAUTY oh how I miss her...look at this sweet face.......

Yup and that is why I would get down on my knees to BEGG like that little puppy...because of this healthy face!! I happy to say we've just finished one week consisting of 16hrs of work and about an hour at the end of the night from 12am-1am spending with my sweetness...oh I dont know how long this is going to last (schduele).  So come next week folks we shall see if my fulltime with allow me to have my schedules adjusted to get this JB training in.  Just cant wait till everything is back to normal & I can work from home & be with my CHUNCKY CHIPS.  Thats the latest folks!!

180th Annual General Conference

1st Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints

Another GREAT General Conference!! Just me & my Princess Ongo May & my parents were @ home watching it. Dad had to work, Lupy & Ana were with sister Morena chillen @ a Hotel enjoying it. LOVE LOVE LOVE this time...when we prepare ourselves to hear the counsel of our leaders. Of course all messages were needed & hit home for me!! Its great to know that our Father in Heaven LOVES us so much we have a living prophet to lead and guide us in these days. I cant wait till the conference talks come out in the Ensign to re-read them and learn more. I also can NOT wait till Ongo May is older to teach her the importance of watching & listening to General Conference. Truely grateful to have the gospel in my life to help with my sacred callings as a wife, a mother and of course of a daughter to a Heavenly Father.

Ongo May's 1st Easter

Makoni Sister's

Wow Easter just passed and a lot that I wanted to do....I didnt but all I can do is laugh about it. You know sometimes things dont always turn out to the way you would like it, but rather then dwell and mope about it just laugh & know its all going to be ok. I am learning very quickly that I need to realize my daughter is NOT old enough to remember all the little things I want her too. This past easter was very simple!! For one my daughter didn't have an easter basket that I so wanted to make for her...mainly because we didnt have the funds to splurge at ALL really....this year with Jay out of work for awhile, and me as well with the leave we've been very limited BUT it has humbled me to realize what really matters. So indoors it was for me & my daughter while Dad worked through out the weekend. We did get plenty of easter candy,and easter stuff from Aunts & Uncles so that was sweet, and one memorable gift was one given from Ongo May's Aunty (one of her fahus) Candace she treated all 5 of her nieces to Easter pictures. OMG I can't wait to see the pictrues Ongo May was the BEST she didnt even cry she was a natural infront of the camera...I prepped her good lol. Above in the picture you can see her 4 older sisters Moala, Katokakala, Sisi, and Fehi the picture is so beautiful I know G-Pa Paseni is in awe of his beautiful Grand-daughters!! If anything this Easter its great to reflect on the great meaning of Easter and that is the resurrection of our Saviour Jesus Christ I for one am VERY grateful for that my goal is to raise my daughter to know the true meaning of Easter & of course enjoy the festivities of it with family!! Hope your Easter was great this year!!

This to shall pass....

The time has come...I've been back to my full time since last week & today its back to my part time the only thing with that is...because of so much changes since i've been off I'm heading to training w/ my part-time. So right now my schedule with consists of 6a.m. wake up to 7a.m. start with my full-time getting off at 3:30pm only to drive up to JB & start training there from 4pm to 12am and then home about 1230am (if traffic permits). Of course when I get home my CHUNCKY CHIPS and her Daddy will most likely be knocked out...and then we start all over in the morning! This schedule I am hoping will only be for 2 weeks but that will be confirmed today so we shall see. Why am I doing this....we'll for a better future for my HEART my daughter...I can't wait to be able to travel with her, and provide her with the best that we can. The only way to accomplish my goals to actually do something about it rather than think about em and HOPE lol I'm just grateful for ALL that I have right now, and know with no doubt that my father in heaven is mindful of me & my little family. So with tears in my eyes because I'm going to miss my lil momma & her Daddy I just have to have the "ganas" and get it done!!